Tune-Up Your Relationship

Your merciless alarm signals the start of yet another hectic day.  You’re halfway out the door before you notice the vaguely familiar person in the kitchen.  Ah yes, your husband!  If you feel like your iPhone gets more face time than your spouse, it's time for a relationship tune-up.

Performing regular vehicle maintenance helps maximize your vehicle’s performance.  The signal on the dash reminds you to change the oil.  Although you’re tempted to ignore it, you don't want to risk the vehicle’s health.  To keep your relationship strong for the long haul, it requires attention and maintenance too!

If you can't remember the last time you and your partner had alone time, it's been too long!  Whether you go out for the night or stay in, quality alone time is essential.  It gives you the opportunity to connect.  By removing life’s distractions you’re assured of each other’s undivided attention.

Listening to your spouse while perusing Pinterest and answering emails is not effective communication.  Successfully communicating with one another is paramount to a healthy relationship.  To ensure effective communication, focus on each other and skip the multi-tasking.  Engaging in the conversation shows you care.

How are you and your partner playful?  Do you chase each other around the kitchen, banter over reality television or toss a flirty wink across the dinner table? Your relationship maintenance plan thrives on fun.  It’s time to rediscover the playfulness in your relationship.  Being goofy is a great way to connect. Creating opportunities for fun will help your relationship go the distance.